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Monday, January 15, 2007

究竟在等谁?——写给大龄单身女孩

“你最近怎么样,还没谈朋友啊?”如果你经常被好心的同学、朋友、大妈、大婶们问到这个问题,那你就有可能已经或正在跨入 大龄单身的行列了。当他们用充满同情的目光注视着你的时候,本来没觉得自己的单身有什么不好的你,也突然感觉像做了错事一样,觉得自己的单身状态,很对不 住关心自己的人。于是,可能你也开始寻找目标、相亲,想干快找个人来结束单身。可是,一次次的希望,却带来一次次的失望。这人太瘦了,那人太高了,这人太 幼稚了,那人太精明了,这人学历没我高,那人工作没我好,这人是单亲家庭,那人没我有能力,这人嘴太油,那人太古板……总之,没相中。面对着介绍人期待的 目光,你只好报歉地说:“真的没感觉!”。眼睁睁看着周围相貌能力都远不如你的女孩儿一个个心满意足地出嫁了,而外貌学历能力素质一样也不差的你却被落下 了。你告诉自己,再等等吧,下一个一定会更好。可是下一个里面,却没有发现更好的。你只好继续等待,你相信,你一定能等到属于你的缘分。
“你究竟在等谁?”,你这样问过自己吗?“我等的是一个高大魁梧的人。”
“你究竟在等谁?”,你这样问过自己吗?“我等的是一个英俊帅气的人。”
“你究竟在等谁?”,你这样问过自己吗?“我等的是一个能让我有感觉的人。”
“你究竟在等谁?”,你这样问过自己吗?“我等的是一个很爱很爱我的人。”
“你究竟在等谁?”,你这样问过自己吗?“我等的是一个学历比我高的人。”
“你究竟在等谁?”,你这样问过自己吗?“我等的是一个工作比我好的人。”
“你究竟在等谁?”,你这样问过自己吗?“我等的是一个善良的、有内涵的人。”
“你究竟在等谁?”,你这样问过自己吗?“我等的是一个有责任心的、有上进心的人。”
“你究竟在等谁?”,你这样问过自己吗?“我等的是一个有车有房的人。”
“你究竟在等谁?”,你这样问过自己吗?“我等的是一个……的人。”答案有很多。
你究竟在等谁?其实,可能你自己也说不清楚。你在等的人,不是某一个真实的人,他只是你理想中的一个完美形象而已,现实当中跟本不存在这样完美的人。 就连各方面都很优秀的你,也不得不承认自己并不是一个十全十美的人,难道不是吗?回到现实来吧,学着用欣赏的目光用心去感觉、去体会、去品味,你就会发现 其实每个人都有他的闪光点。考虑一下,他的优点是不是属于你很欣赏的方面,他的缺点是不是属于你能包容的方面。适合你的就是最好的,可能他还不够优秀;真 爱你的就是最美的,可能他还不够英俊;珍惜你的就是最棒的,可能他还不够富有。
当你看到这里,心里想到的那个人是谁?说不定他就是你一直在苦苦等待的那个人,佛祖早就刻意为你把他派来了,只不过他现在还只是一块貌不惊人的璞石,需要你亲自用你灵巧的双手去细细地打磨,他才能变成无瑕的美玉。试着给他一次机会吧,也等于给你自己一次机会。

Tuesday, January 02, 2007

a letter from jesus

Did it occur to you, that you can call the Almighty & should be read as Jeremiah 33:3

God says - Call unto me, I will answer you. , the following message may have some relevance on this auspicious christmas season/greetings 2006. No copyrights infringement intended.
regards


A letter from Jesus


As you well know, we are getting closer to my birthday. Every year there is a celebration in my honor and I think that this year the celebration will be repeated.

During this time there are many people shopping for gifts, there are many radio announcements, TV commercials, and in every part of the worldeveryoneis talking that my birthday is getting closer and closer.

It is really very nice to know, that at least once a year, some people think of me.

As you know, the celebration of my birthday began many years ago.

At first people seemed to understand and be thankful of all that I did for them, but in these times, no one seems to know the reason for the celebration.

Family and friends get together and have a lot of fun, but they don't know the meaning of the celebration. I remember that last year there was a great feast in my honor. The dinner table was full of delicious foods, pastries, fruits, assorted nuts and chocolates. The decorations were exquisite and there were many, many beautifully wrapped gifts.

But, do you want to know something? I wasn't invited.

I was the guest of honor and they didn't remember to send me an invitation.

The party was for me, but when that great day came, I was left outside, theyclosed the door in my face .. and I wanted to bewith them and share their table.

In truth, that didn't surprise me because in the last few years all close their doors to me. Since I wasn't invited, I decided toenter the party without making any noise. I went in and stood in a corner.

They were all drinking; there were some who were drunk and telling jokes and laughing at everything. They were having a grand time.

To top it all, this big fat man all dressed in red wearing a long white beard entered the room yelling Ho-Ho-Ho! He seemed drunk. He sat on the sofa and all the children ran to him, saying: "Santa Claus, Santa Claus"
as if the party were in his honor!

At midnight all the people began to hug each other; I extended my arms waiting for someone to hug me and do you know no-one hugged me.

Suddenly they all began to share gifts. They opened them one by one with great expectation. When all had been opened, I looked to see if, maybe, there was one for me. What would you feel if on your birthday everybody
shared gifts and you did not get one?

I then understood that I was unwanted at that party and quietly left.

Every year it gets worse. People only remember the gifts, the parties, to eat and drink, and nobody remembers me.

I would like this Christmas that you allow me to enter into your life.

I would like that you recognize the fact that almost two thousand years ago.

I came to this world to give my life for you, on the cross, to save you.

Today, I only want that you believe this with all your heart.

I want to share something with you. As many didn't invite me to their party, I will have my own celebration, a grandiose party that no one has ever imagined, a spectacular party. I'm still making the final arrangements..

Today I am sending out many invitations and there is an invitation for you.

I want to know if you wish to attend and I will make a reservation for you and write your name with golden letters in my great guest book.

Only those on the guest list will be invited to the party.

Those who don't answer the invite, will be left outside. Be prepared because when all is ready you will be part of my great party.

See you soon. I Love you!

Jesus